horrible aggressive misogyny and the romanticization of domestic violence and sexual torture aren’t some of my favorite things and young girls picking up that book or watching that movie being left wondering if that’s what relationships are supposed to be REALLY makes me angry.
this man takes a young woman who is less powerful, less experienced and not entirely confident about the area of life he’s leading her into and then starts doing horrible sexual things to her, he removes her boundaries and normalizes the violence against her
50 shades of grey reinforces and perpetuates the disgusting lie that women LIKE and WANT to be hurt and that you can heal a broken man if you just love him enough and do all the things he wants you to do bc eventually he won’t want to hurt you anymore
he goes from a sexually violent predator to prince charming and it’s gross and offensive and nobody should support it no matter how cute the guy playing him is.
a thrilling saga
SHERLOCK THESE ARE NOT THE WORST THINGS ABOUT LIVING WITH YOU
you think I named my half-russian newborn son yuri after his strong and proud grandfather and so does my wife. but it was just a ruse and secretly, I named him after lesbian anime and manga, and with such a powerful name he will become unstoppable
B. Y. E
5am twitter comic
im really just not over that a twilight AU fanfiction with the names changed got published as a novel, then hundreds of thousands of people read that novel, and now there’s a movie based on that novel
i just watched the trailer and im pretty skeeved out
because it reads like a horror/psychological thriller about an abusive relationship
but i know that’s NOT what they’re going for
its supposed to be a legitimate sexy romance
no but for real it actually triggered memories of the one mildly abusive relationship i’ve had and i couldnt finish because i was freaking out and in tears
fuck 50 shades
50 shades of grey is actually one of the most abusive relationships in media. it was so bad that i couldn’t even finish the first book.
i couldnt finish the book
the person who sits around all day deliberately watching children’s movies that are rated less than one star by reviews and websites couldnt finish the book because it was too bad
Look at Fifty Shades Of Grey's knot.
Now look at my knot.
Now back at FSoG. Now back at me.
This is the knot your knot could look like if you bothered to ask actual BDSM players, or hell, even their YouTube channels, before making a movie supposedly about BDSM. I’m not a rope top and I did that one-handed.
I’m on a horse.
The thing where they justify abuse by saying “it’s BDSM, of course it’s sick and wrong” is still a bigger problem though.
i love the Women Against Feminism that are like “I dont need feminism because i can admit i need my husband to open a jar for me and thats ok!” cause listen 1. get a towel 2. get the towel damp 3. put it on the lid and twist. BAM now men are completely useless. you, too, can open a jar. time to get a divorce